Wednesday, October 14, 2015

The Music of Life

Instrumental music moves me.  I don’t need words to pull feelings from the shallows below the surface of my psyche.  The depth of conviction by the string section heightens the emotion that wells up inside.  The brass and reed sections tame the threat of showers – counterbalancing the pull with push and gradual blending until all sections are harmonizing the emotional continuum.
Why do I raise musical intonations in today’s post?  Isn’t rhythm part of everyday life?  You don’t have to experience an orchestra to feel the staccato, crescendo, fortissimo, etc. of life’s calls and answers.
You feel the situational draw of every instance that engages you.  Senses awaken.  You absorb and are either nonplussed or moved with each extreme having degrees of engagement or disengagement.
As I participate in meetings I imagine each attendee plays a different instrument.  There’s the loud and expressive (the brass), the soft quiet one (the reed), the consensus builder (the guitar), the leader of each segment of the conversation (the conductor).  And this goes on until I’ve tagged each person. The beauty of remembering this routine allows me to know what to expect from each participant prior to the kickoff.
“What’s that got to do with anything?”
Glad you asked.  Life delivers interesting possibilities; how interesting depends upon the extent of your imagination.  Do you exercise the psychological muscles to keep them supple?  If not I believe you will enjoy benefit if you did.  Find a way to engage productively and effectively.  It’s easy to hear things out of tune, off key and garishly askew.  That’s your decision.  But should you be unable to extract feelings, value, encouragement, etc. from a gathering, why participate?
It’s a fair question to consider.  You owe it to yourself to make the most of every waking moment.  They cannot be recaptured, reserved or stored.  Spend them wisely to build your worth and support nurturing growth to which you are entitled.
The decision is yours.  Remember that regret brings nothing positive and will waste precious time pining away and yearning for bygone times.  Today is yours.  Tomorrow is promised to nobody but you can place your reservation by your actions today.
Have a wonderful day.

Love and hugs, Nikki DiCaro

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