The view from the top; sounds
powerful, alluring and almost romantic, yes?
Those of you who have reached the summit, in whatever capacity, know
it’s not all that and a box of chocolates.
Well maybe it is a box of something.
What’s in the box is the mystery and opening the box could be dicey. Getting the top spot comes with some
advantages and plenty of disadvantages.
One of the disadvantages is that all arrows point to you, or is it
“point at you”? Whatever the appropriate
terminology, you get a sense of what the pioneers felt like as they traversed a
valley and up on the hillside sat native Americans with silent death in their quivers.
Just like in every other aspect of
life there are those who support and those who criticize. Ever notice that the critics, the ones with
the most to say, are the ones contributing the least. Unless of course you count vitriol as a
contribution. I call it poisoning the
well. And it’s especially alarming for
the young and impressionable. Efforts to
nurture them are torn asunder by pompous, bombastic, egotistical and most
likely clueless people claiming an overwhelming workload yet failing to produce
one shred of productivity.
Sometimes it’s better to be a foot
soldier than a general. Power carries a
sometimes crushing load of responsibility.
We’re strong, we can handle it.
I’m not doubting or complaining.
The purpose is to say what others may be thinking. Isn’t that what a scribe does? This column will be devoted to a plethora of
varied topics. Yes yours truly can get
into a groove and report consonant topics; hopefully not to the detriment of my
readers.
Here’s the connective tissue, the
tendrils, that make this post relevant to your life no matter where you are on
the professional ladder. The further up the ladder you are the less likely your
fingers will be tread upon. But you are
more prone to lightning strikes, bird droppings, and other animate and inanimate
objects that make occupying lofty heights not so glamorous.
Every station in life carries some
modicum of responsibility and accountability.
You know it as well as I. So what
do we do? Bury our collective head in
the sand? That will get pesky grains of irritant
in your eyes and ears. Face it, you can’t
hide from responsibility. It will be
waiting for you like a dog awaits the return of its master. Turn servitude into mastery by shaking off
negativity. There’s nothing more
soothing to the ego than to give complainers and critics no nourishment. Let their destructive words wither and
die. Eventually they will go away. It’s up to you to be consistent in your
approach. Predictability is a good thing
for most. Realize change happens slowly
and you don’t want to alienate your supporters by ignoring their needs. They are one of the reasons you’ve reached
this point in your life.
Wishing you a fulfilling Friday and
a wonderful weekend.
Love and hugs, Nikki DiCaro