Trans Mission

The things we do define our path, our direction, how we choose to live our lives.  I like the term “choose” because that’s what we do.  There should be miniscule dispute that some milestones along the way will be defined; requiring predetermined acts, actions or refraining from acts or actions.  But they are not the defining points for us.  They could be called toll gates, weigh stations or checkpoints.  They are not there to impede, only to provide clarity as appropriate. As unique as each snowflake, the journey for each who undertake the trek is personal to us.  This is our Trans Mission.  Yes I know that sounds more like a car part than a personal endeavor.  This is literature (whether you believe I am a hack writer or more eloquent that a fifth grader).

As with the sojourn, we have the luxury (versus the necessity) to label this adventures whatever we select from the multitude of options.  And however you monikerize it, this will not be contrived or acted from a predetermined script.  You are the playwright.  There’s nothing wrong with that.

Notwithstanding the play on words, the literary ask and answer, the push and pull or the give and take, you should take your travels as seriously or as lightheartedly as you feel appropriate to enable this thing we call ‘trans mission’ to be enjoyable, educational and fulfilling.

Pack lightly for the trip. Be prepared to visit with people along the way.  Open your heart to the possibilities and probabilities of friendship and heart rending encounters.  Isn’t that one of the outcomes?  If not, shouldn’t it be?

Everything you do either dictates or influences your direction.  You need do nothing that falls outside the line between the here and now and your goals and objectives.  But you should not attempt to go it alone. That’s not how it must be.  You will be right for yourself and you may be right for another or others.  That’s called luck by way of bravery.

Yes I know friendship requires more than a modicum of trust.  You are discerning, regardless of how many times you nick the nail polish from the tip of your big toe.  Reward entails risk.  You don’t win every bet you don’t place.

So take advantage of yourself, in a good way that is!  You have qualities, capabilities and gifts that will serve you will.  They are magical in their right and are meant to be at your disposal.

Have a glorious weekend and treat yourself to something wonderful.

Love and hugs, Nikki DiCaro