Facial Hair?

Recently I overheard one TG criticizing another TG who, for whatever reason, sported facial hair at a recent event TG event.  Not everyone can look like we would like.  And what’s with judgementalism?  Have we become remorseless?  Didn’t we recently rail against inequalities, discrimination and prejudice in and by a midwestern state that begins with an “I”?  Are we experiencing memory lapses?  Maybe it’s the hormones.  Did we discover perfection?  Or is it something in the water?

Remember, there but for the grace of God… we should be thankful for what we have especially when we encounter someone who has limitations or restrictions that may impact their ability to present in a way that is… dare I say… conventional.  I’m no expert in this area but I do know that transgender crosses social and religious lines.  Some religions require retention of facial hair.  Yes you can adhere to your religion and also be unconventional.  For others, the explanation can be as simple as loving their spouse and complying with a request when absence of facial hair could cast a shadow over the relationship.

I hope we can dial up the understanding and eviscerate the ridicule.  The term ‘ridiculous’ has been overused and mostly in the wrong context.  Ridiculous means full of ridicule.  Remember, we want to be understood and accepted.  You get what you give and ill feelings reflect badly on all of us.

Have an unridiculous day; be filled with love and understanding!

Love and hugs, Nikki DeCaro