Life Unwritten?

Is your life unwritten?  Sometimes it feels that way; no path to follow.  The tour guides have retired.  Alone in a crowded world?  Feeling like all eyes are upon you?  Yes, life has a way of making us wonder.  Some call it paranoia, others emotional discomfort.

A small dose of discomfort is not always a bad thing.  We discussed stretching the borders of our comfort zone.  Consider it land acquisition, manifest destiny, eminent domain.  Take growth in bite-sized pieces.  Too much too soon can cause emotional indigestion and can overwhelm.  Digest and incorporate and these extensions of you will become seamless.

I’ve tried both – wanting everything yesterday or the day before that.  I was disappointed at first to learn my weaknesses and limitations.  I may feel like Wonder Woman or any of her progeny but super powers can only take you so far.  Even superheroes need to land and deal with issues at ground level.

So go ahead and deal.  The sooner we start the sooner we make progress.  Yes, progress is good.  It may be scary – these revelations about ourselves – but a little serves to recalibrate.  I call it getting my gyroscope tilted appropriately.  Call it what you like, it’s the same for all of us.  Lows follow highs that follow lows.  Riding the hills and dales of life.

 Let’s plan to write the next verse in the poem of our life.  Not into verses or rhyming, then try writing the next paragraph in the current chapter of your book or the next stanza in your song.  Whatever your taste, you owe it to yourself to do something.  Remember we agreed that indecision is a decision and not always a good one.

Don’t leave your life unwritten.  I know it will make fascinating reading for all who choose to partake.  That includes me honey so don’t leave me hanging.  I want to know what happens at the next turn of the page.  I’m not anxious for the ending – I want to thrill with you; to enjoy the journey and hopefully meet you along the way. 

Take my hand.  If you can’t take my hand physically, take it emotionally.  It wall always be available to you.

Have a wonderful Tuesday.  Be thankful for what you have and what you are becoming.  And yes, you are becoming someone wonderful, awe-inspiring.  But most of all we are becoming friends.

Love and hugs, Nikki DeCaro