Capitalizing on Adversity

Some days start hectic and stay that way. Other days begin slowly and end frenetically.  Today started hectic and ended with a long and considered discussion with one of my senior scientists.  When I talk with someone with different professional focus, less seasoned life experiences and the casual openness to share thoughts and ideas without compunction I experience an epiphany of sorts.  This was one of those times.

In the presence of a person, an intelligent person who doesn’t yet realize how smart he is, or if he does, refuses to wear such on his sleeve, I am humbled. The interchange of ideas, the willingness to give and receive, can be revealing in the most educational ways.  I am thankful for these opportunities and the capability to recognize and appreciate the smarts freely offered.

Capitalizing on learning experiences, teachable moments, can be overwhelming.  Openness is vital to absorption of ideas lest we squander.  These moments occur all around us at various and sometimes unexpected situations.  Allow yourself to consume the offering of knowledge, even when it feels like you don’t want to engage.  Yes, I know teachable moments can be preceded by unease.  We’ve all been there at least once.

You discover something that surprises you.  Or does it shock you?  How do you react?  Do you recede?  Do you refuse to recognize the glimmer of knowledge?  Why?  Everything is life has the potential to edify us.  It may not be the opportune time for us.  Is there ever an opportune time?

Take a deep breath, summon intestinal fortitude.  You can do it.  You can take whatever the moment offers and capitalize on it.  Add it to your stores of strength.  Next time you run across a similar situation you will be in better shape to weather any unpleasantness.  This is called experiential learning.  Not all education comes from textbooks or the Internet.  Real life touches teach more effectively than passive engagement, at least for me.  No I don’t seek unpleasantness to harden my exterior.  I attempt to maneuver around it.  Sometimes tough situations are unavoidable.  Isn’t it better to have the ability to deal without being cut deeply?  You don’t always have to win.  Living to enjoy another day is a goal and it supports my life plan.

Once you engage in your life plan there should be nothing that derails your efforts.  Those pioneers who precede us prove their mettle and become examples of overcoming adversity and learning from each encounter.

Turn adversity to our advantage is rewarding and strengthening.  The easier moments will become more enjoyable and thoroughly fulfilling because you endured and emerged a better person.

Love and hugs, Nikki DiCaro